Writing a eulogy for a loved one can be a challenging and emotional task, but it is also an opportunity to honor their life and legacy. Here are some tips on how to write a eulogy that will capture the essence of your loved one and provide comfort to those who are grieving: Start by gathering information: Before you start writing, gather information about the person you are eulogizing. Talk to family members and friends to get a sense of their life story, accomplishments, and personality traits. Consider your audience: Think about who will be in attendance at the funeral and what Read More »

Losing a parent, child, or spouse is one of the hardest things a person can experience. The grieving process is difficult and can leave you feeling lost, overwhelmed, and uncertain about how to move forward. But despite the pain, it’s possible to heal and grow in the aftermath of loss. Here are seven tips to help you navigate the first year after the loss of a loved one: Allow yourself to grieve: It’s important to give yourself time and space to grieve. This means accepting your feelings, no matter how difficult they may be, and allowing yourself to process them. Seek support: Read More »

Bringing children to a funeral may seem like a difficult or even unnecessary task, but it can be beneficial for both the child and the family as a whole. First and foremost, attending a funeral allows children to understand and process the concept of death. Death is a difficult concept for many adults to understand, let alone children. By attending a funeral, children can see the reality of death and begin to understand that it is a natural part of life. This can help them to come to terms with the loss and begin to grieve in a healthy way. Additionally, bringing Read More »

“Taps” consists of 24 notes that are sounded on a bugle at funerals, wreath-laying ceremonies and memorial services for veterans.  It was not written in its current form but came from revisions to a call named “Tattoo” that was written before the Civil War.  You can see it played here and you will hear some of the notes we know as Taps in its current form today. In 1862 the first steps were taken that resulted in “Taps.”  Every evening a call named “Extinguish Lights” was played to signal the end of day and that troops should extinguish all lights and report Read More »

Bringing Veterans Day to Life in the Eyes of Children Veterans Day marks our gratefulness and respect for all of those who have served in our military and in the defense of our nation. It is a major point of pride for all of those who have sacrificed or have loved someone who has.  As Veterans Day isn’t an occasion with a major lead-up period or a gift-giving opportunity, children might not immediately recognize how significant and special the day truly is. Children’s knowledge of Veterans Day might also vary with the number of close relatives they know who have served in Read More »

Creating an Occasion for Smiles Every person, no matter where or how long they lived, has special dates associated with their lives. Wedding anniversaries, birthdays, and notable events all come to mind as we pass through the calendar year. And while many of those occasions bring smiles and fond memories back to us, the approaching dates of other events might leave us, and the ones we love, filled with dread. The anniversary of a loved one’s passing is not traditionally thought of in Western cultures as a motivation for celebration. But the inevitability of the date arriving every year leaves us with Read More »

The Importance of Community and Grief There are so many occasions in life where we should seek out the comfort and community of the ones around us. Gathering is essential for the relief and comfort it provides after the loss of a friend or family member. If there is any doubt in your mind about the importance of having a special moment for your loved one, please consider the following ideas. Why Gathering is So Important A marked occasion allows for a concrete goodbye. The grieving process looks different for everyone, but it’s an inevitable part of life. It can be very Read More »

Obituaries have traditionally been used by families to let the community know about their loved one’s passing. An obituary recognizes the impact that person had on their community, their ties to the community, and the family members that are left behind. It also informs anyone who might want to attend the funeral of the schedules and dates for any services being held. While the practice might seem a little outdated for those who don’t typically read the newspaper, the rise of the online obituary has allowed families to continue honoring their family members with a much wider and more immediate reach. Writing Read More »

Funerals and end-of-life traditions are an essential part of saying goodbye to those who have passed, creating a final moment of memory and peace that draws us together in our love for those who have gone before us. We in the United States tend to celebrate the passing of our loved ones with memorial services that involve different traditions based on our religions, family practices, and other cultural elements, ranging from somber to joyous. But as you can imagine, there is a world full of ceremonies and practices that look almost nothing like our own, while still being filled with love and Read More »